For my SIL’s wedding I flew out to Pakistan and my MIL had already selectedmy mehndi jora for me (unstiched). To my horror, she wore the same fabric salwar kamiz on the barat, to which my other SIl remarked people will say they took turns wearing teh same jora, the DIl on the mehndi and the MIL on the barat. Thank God I got mine stitched differently from her’s.