Well dear, none of your posts indicate you love your MIL either. I just find it odd that you should get pissed. Anyhow…i stand by what i said, why waste energy being angry over petty little things. 
Actually I have never heard that riwaj of giving things after a birth except for mithai.. It sounds similar to what goes on at weddings where the girls side gifts so many things to the guys side…gold/sona etc…doesnt seem fair to do it again…but hey to each their own…
I don’t know what I’ll do :hinna: but for sure I’d be upset if anybody “expected” me to give them anything, whether it was their riwaj or not. Things should be given out of love and happiness, not out of “duty.” it goes for both older and younger generation.