I didn’t. Did you?
Do most desi guys get the talk?
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Thank God I didn’t but I know of girls and guys who’ve had it before their wedding. So uncomfortable.
As if anyone would be clueless in this day and age. 
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aisay kaam hee naheen karo kay yeh nobat aaey
Re: Did you get "The Talk" from your parents?
aisay kaam hee naheen karo kay yeh nobat aaey
I thought "The Talk" was about changes in the body and puberty?
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I thought it was about sex 
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sab ....................desi parents don't do it esp fathers
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i thought the same 
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sab ....................desi parents don't do it esp fathers
From what i've heard, yeah they do! Wait till your wedding day :D
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aisay kaam hee naheen karo kay yeh nobat aaey
with that i mean if one is a nerd only than his parents would get to talk to him, so be smart guys
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No talk for me from my mum and im married with a child!
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From what i've heard, yeah they do!
i haven't heard -or- seen such a thing
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At puberty I got given a razor and was told that in our Mazhab armpit hair and pubic hair is considered filthy so we have to remove it at least every 40 days, preferablly every week... Other than that, nothing about wet dreams, std's etc. but then my parents knew I was getting sex ed. at school and in our community premartial sex is not really approved of so there was none of the daddy handing me a box of rubber jonnies and saying "use these son".
I heard from older cousins that in Pakistan if someone gets married, an older brother, cousin or friend usually explains in a respectable/Islamic way on what to do and that, not that there's any need for that in this day and age.
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At puberty I got given a razor and was told that in our Mazhab armpit hair and pubic hair is considered filthy so we have to remove it at least every 40 days, preferablly every week... Other than that, nothing about wet dreams, std's etc. but then my parents knew I was getting sex ed. at school and in our community premartial sex is not really approved of so there was none of the daddy handing me a box of rubber jonnies and saying "use these son".
I heard from older cousins that in Pakistan if someone gets married, an older brother, cousin or friend usually explains in a respectable/Islamic way on what to do and that, not that there's any need for that in this day and age.
See this is an issue I have. People get told to use a razor down there, but no one actually tells how to use it properly. It would be interesting to find out how many injuries occur in Pakistan due to improper use of razor by young men. And the cheapest razor in Pakistan is an actual safety razor, not that Mach 3, or something.
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nah none yet phew
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Talk is what talk does...
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i haven't heard -or- seen such a thing
You've gotta be kidding me! Anywho.. your turn will come, dont worry bacha :D
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Haven't heard of any such "talk".
Heard about some friends or cousins giving advice b4 marriage but none talked to me b4 my marraige.
And who needs advice in this day and age.
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I lost my father when I was 14 and of course mom was not going to explain some things to me. hey but I survived and have two girls.
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Tell me about it yaar!!! By ‘safety razor’ do you mean those cut throat razors Turkish/Persian barbers use? Man that is cruel..
I got given a orange BIC razor, I attacked my zulfen with it and was left all bruised, sore, chapped and with ingrown hairs because I’d never shaved before in my life, I was in agony for a full week and wasn’t able to walk straight because it hurt every time there was friction, I had to wear a Shalwar and go commando.
After that I thought let religion say what it wants I’m staying au-naturel… 
I use to take comfort in seeing pics of Michelangelos nude statue of Hazrat Davud :as: (David) and thinking look it’s not neccesary in our religion at all…
It wasn’t untill my gora friend told me he did it and gave me tips that I tried it again but I washed, exfoliated, used cream and shaved with the grain and I’ve been doing it since.
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^ Whoa… wayyyyyy too much info 
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