did this girl fancy me?

[wunderkind]

Re: did this girl fancy me?

@LuxuryItem

Because you seem desperate for a relationship with her and she hasn't shown any interest in you (atleast your preception of it). To me it seems, she is treating you more like a buddy than a romantic interest. This is the week before X-Mas and people like to spend time with those who matter to them -- lights, cheer, walking out hand in hand in cold weather, etc.

I get the same feeling, that she's just treating me as a buddy. On the other hand, there are many actions which don't sit well with that explanation. Perhaps she's trying to subtly lure me into confessing that I like her etc. etc.... so that she can then have the pleasure of saying: "I like you, but only as a friend". Well, I'm not going to give her this privilege. I've never given it before and don't intend to in the future.