did this girl fancy me?

How do I know if a girl likes me? I don’t really have an expert eye about such things. So I was wondering if you guys could help out.

I know this girl from college. We’re quite good friends. But we’ve been out of touch for quite a while. Recently, we met up for dinner and talked to each other for hours and hours. I had to do a presentation and I needed help in practising for it; she offered to help me and invited me to her house. I went there last week and after she helped me we went out for dinner.

The conversation was about partners / marriage / what women want / etc etc .. I don’t know whether she likes me or not? If she did what sort of hints would she drop? :confused:

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well has she tried to stay in touch after that? called you etc? If not.. you can still try one more time.. touch base and suggest going out... Girls don't really waste no time in making it known that they're attracted etc.. so don't worry.. if she is.. you'll know.

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she hasn't called, no. perhaps i should organise one more dinner? what if she thinks I'm not interested.

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Don;t know about before but she may be beginning to like you now. Stay in touch and we'll all find out soon.
and yes call her, she may be waiting for you to call instead of making the call herself. If that is not the case i'm sure you'll get a hint or two.

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Call her and thank her for her help and tell her that you enjoyed her company despite her bad breath.

Then ask her to help clean your apartment. She’ll come running if she is interesting.

PS: don’t forget to mention the ‘bad breath’; believe me, it’s counter-intuitive but it will seal the deal for later protein exchange.

PPS: girls love to clean their men’s apartments/rooms/houses.

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first of all ............. how do u feel for her ?? if u like her and want to step up further than only contact / stay in touch with her.................... in case u like her than u might have to show yr effection towards her in words besides getting to know her feelings for u first ........................ after all she's a girl

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she's talking abt marriage and stuff! she blatently fancies u! :)

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Sounds to me also like she is interested. Many gals will not call, they feel that the guys should make this move. Call her as recommended above, you have a good reason - thanking her for help etc. Take it from there. Good luck! And keep us posted ;)

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Very easy....next time when you guys get together hold her and kiss her on her lips...if you got slap right away means she's not interested on you at all if she's also participate make a next move....chill pill.

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hmmmm...i do not agree with that one. what if she is interested in him and a very nice girl and also conservative....if he goes kissing her she may get all offended thinking he just wants to get "in her pants" yeah? If he really likes her take it slow....some things are worth waiting for. He will know if she;s interested when he calls to say thanks for the help, can i take you to dinner to show my thx yadayada.

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just ask her.whats the big deal.she'll let u know.i hope shes not the sort who'll insult you or start patronzing u and then later starts playing hard to get.if shes that type then look elsewhere.

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Simple...just say I love you to her... just to check her reaction.

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…drop it likes it hot!!! :smiley:

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Its a shame we have to play these games.

If you're ready to get married and she's your type just tell her that you see her as marriage material and that you're thinking about sending your folks over.
If you're not into her then what does it matter if she likes you or not?

The decison is yours brother.

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umm I'm going to say no. she doesn't.

It's possible that she likes some guy, or has some guy, and is trying to sort out stuff, and you're the guy that has appeared in front of her to help through that stuff. As for the whole invitation and dinner, what? only guy friends can do that now?

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why cant you just see her as a friend. i mean if a girl helps you out and spends time with you, why cant she just do that as a Friend.

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dude, if she hlped you with some presentation than it means you are dumber than her. I think she only helps you out of sympathy and gets a kick out of helping a dumbass. Listen man, you want a wife who can cook and look after your kids and NOT some primeminister or Madame Curie. So, stay with your own type and go for the arranged stuff.

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Agreed with most of the quote; I'm not in favour of arranged so much unless proper time is given to adequately know the oppisite sex.

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dude u won't be able to figure out women in a lifetime.. how much 'proper time' did u have in mind?

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^ theres a lot of truth to that, lol