did this girl fancy me?

[wunderkind]

Re: did this girl fancy me?

@Anil Khan

Its a shame we have to play these games.

If you're ready to get married and she's your type just tell her that you see her as marriage material and that you're thinking about sending your folks over. If you're not into her then what does it matter if she likes you or not?

The decison is yours brother.

she's not that type. you can't win her by sending your folks over to her single room flatshare.

[wunderkind]

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@Khumar

umm I'm going to say no. she doesn't.

It's possible that she likes some guy, or has some guy, and is trying to sort out stuff, and you're the guy that has appeared in front of her to help through that stuff. As for the whole invitation and dinner, what? only guy friends can do that now?

I suspect this may be the case. She told me once that she had lots of guys who wanted to go out with her, but obviously these guys had come clean and admitted to fancying her, whereas I've done nothing of the sort.

It may just be a friendly thing, i.e. helping out and going to dinner, but not many girls will invite even their guy friends over to their flat (where the girl lives on her own). But I may be wrong. Perhaps many do, perhaps she does and it's okay for her.

[wunderkind]

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@funguy

dude, if she hlped you with some presentation than it means you are dumber than her. I think she only helps you out of sympathy and gets a kick out of helping a dumbass. Listen man, you want a wife who can cook and look after your kids and NOT some primeminister or Madame Curie. So, stay with your own type and go for the arranged stuff.

Actually, that is not the case. We're both of equal intelligence. We only spent something like 20 minutes on the actual presentation, and the rest of the time (3 and a half hours) chatting and going out to dinner.

[desidudecool]

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dude if shes really hot or something then you gotta take your chances..cause the competition will be stiff and she'll get taken very soon.

[Shak_killS]

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signs are positive, but you need to make first move. not in hurry, take your time and keep in touch well with her if you are interested, you will get the sign sooner or later.
kissing can be disasterous, I dont think you can do that as you hesitent to show your interest, kiss would be too far. holding hands can also be good to get the signal.
or go for a walk after dinner.

[sweetcreme_90]

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she loves yea

[wunderkind]

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I've sent this girl a thank-you email, but she hasn't replied yet. i sent it yesterday. Doesn't seem too keen.

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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[niyal]

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@Anil Khan

Agreed with most of the quote; I’m not in favour of arranged so much unless proper time is given to adequately know the oppisite sex.

ejactly

[Sayonee]

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haha this is a funny thread

[Amour]

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@wunderkind

I’ve sent this girl a thank-you email, but she hasn’t replied yet. i sent it yesterday. Doesn’t seem too keen.

I dont think she need a thanks email, it should be more than that. talk to her over the phone or invite her for dinner.

[phiryulovehua]

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[quote=Mamaof3]
If he really likes her take it slow....some things are worth waiting for.quote]

I just have to say that i loved ur comment!!!

[wunderkind]

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She's going away for a few weeks over Christmas, so we're not going to see each other until next year.

She told me she's quite busy this week so we won't be able to meet up.

If a girl 'teases' you, i.e. makes fun of you but not in a mean way, is that a sign she's interested?

PS: she's agreed to go on this climbing trip with me next year.

[LuxuryItem]

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^ move on.

[wunderkind]

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why?

[PakistaniAbroad]

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what LI said..

[LuxuryItem]

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@wunderkind

why?

Because you seem desperate for a relationship with her and she hasn't shown any interest in you (atleast your preception of it). To me it seems, she is treating you more like a buddy than a romantic interest. This is the week before X-Mas and people like to spend time with those who matter to them -- lights, cheer, walking out hand in hand in cold weather, etc.

[niyal]

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there is a difference in being interested in some1 or being infatuated to some1.
from your posts i see the girl is infatuated but you are interested in her .. fairly well . but make it easy for her to understand your interest :).. things will be much better

[wunderkind]

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@LuxuryItem

Because you seem desperate for a relationship with her and she hasn't shown any interest in you (atleast your preception of it). To me it seems, she is treating you more like a buddy than a romantic interest. This is the week before X-Mas and people like to spend time with those who matter to them -- lights, cheer, walking out hand in hand in cold weather, etc.

I get the same feeling, that she's just treating me as a buddy. On the other hand, there are many actions which don't sit well with that explanation. Perhaps she's trying to subtly lure me into confessing that I like her etc. etc.... so that she can then have the pleasure of saying: "I like you, but only as a friend". Well, I'm not going to give her this privilege. I've never given it before and don't intend to in the future.

[PakistaniAbroad]

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face it buddy.. u’re whipped.. u can talk the talk but one phone call from her and u’d go crawling to paint her apartment and then go out for lunch and pay for it too..

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