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Re: did anyone just have a

@Cunctator

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That is so true and a common practice in our society. Most people give the same reason of legal documentation. The elders in the family also instruct the couple (actually married) not to meet up. If they are engaged, then they can hang out .

But I have come across few people who always do nikah first. I mean it is understandable, to some extent, that nikah is done for visa process and then shaddi will happen when the groom can take the bride with himself. But some people give logic that if nikah is done first, then it would be a halal way of getting to know each other. I agree that they have a point but my apprehension is what if they do not like each other. In engagement, one may call off. But after nikah, things get quite complicated.

Why complicated? Just like one can call off an engagement, a divorce can also be done. Halal way of knowing is way better than haram way of knowing.