AS the days count down to my impending marriage, im finding myself very teary. i keep crying atleast once a day for NO REASON silly things can set me off, i just want to break down and boohooo for hours, im assuming its my marriage thats making me soo teary. i have so much pressure on everything, and im just not looking forward to being seperated from my family. i see my lil sis and brother just sitting there with my parents, and i feel like soon itl change and it wont be there, and i wont be able to be with them daily like i am now. the relationship will change… just writing this is making me teary and i have no idea why..
did anyone else feel like crying all the time before their marriage, and how did you overcome it…
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i dnt wana talk to my mum..cos as soon as i start i well up and want to cry....and i know it wont help..i mean she cant change the situation its inevitable,
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when i thought id be getting married in october (onlyy realised recently wasnt happening) i was doing exactly tht. I kept crying, while i was in uni amongst my friends at the stupidest times (obviously id hide myself and thy wudnt realise) tht was around may. the maths tells us thats 5 months b4 the wedding lol!!!!
guess im worse then u
dont worry, teary eye'd is how many bride to be feel.
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InshaAllah my weddings in 2 1/2 weeks and im like that. And reading this just made it worse.
Do you really have to write all these things on this forum? Instead of stressing yourself AND others by posting this or that on gupshup, why don't you go and spend time with the family! Seriously, you and your dilemmas! Im a bride to be and you don't see me writing out everyyy little stressful thing happening to me!
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^ well said! What's up with pouring your heart out on gupshup? As for crying, weddings are a happy occasion! I think I'll just be prancing around and looking forward to the fun filled events as my wedding approaches! True, things will change but it's a change for the better.....if you're marrying the right person that is!
AS the days count down to my impending marriage, im finding myself very teary. i keep crying atleast once a day for NO REASON silly things can set me off, i just want to break down and boohooo for hours, im assuming its my marriage thats making me soo teary. i have so much pressure on everything, and im just not looking forward to being seperated from my family. i see my lil sis and brother just sitting there with my parents, and i feel like soon itl change and it wont be there, and i wont be able to be with them daily like i am now. the relationship will change... just writing this is making me teary and i have no idea why..
did anyone else feel like crying all the time before their marriage, and how did you overcome it...
i've been like that since i got engaged:LB:, but i try to offer namaz e hajat daily for a happy life after marriage, n it calms me down.
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oh my God not another tragedy for nadz please cheer up girl and learn to see good things in life! im getting married and i have to go ABROAD away from my parents and this post is causing adrenaline rush in me:|
For days I've not wanted to log on because everytime I do there's a new drama in your life.
I'm glad to see im not the only one getting annoyed by every little rant and rave happening in your life.
plz go make a blog. this isn't the forum for your rants.
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if i have an issue or not, i dnt think i would compare you issues with mine.i dnt want to start a blog, so stop telling me what to do. if you got nothing to say dnt read my threads.you can see my name under whatever thread i post, so DONT READ IT OK.....if you got your own issues the good for u that maybe u can pour ur heart out to ur mates or whoever, i dnt and cant.this is the only point of the forum right.i didnt realise the forum was for people who couldnt care less about other peoples problems and only pop in for a coffee and to laugh at others issues. rahter than just not replying you make fun of someone else, you can find this as annoying as you want. i hope one day you have problems as many, as you get the same answers as you give.
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well said nadz...
some ppl on this forum can be so arrogant and damn rite rude!!! i couldnt agree with u more tghis is the whole point of a forum so u can openly discus what ever u desire to...those of u who dont like posts from certain ppl dont bother opening the thread and nosing about
back to the topic im sure its only natural inshalah everythng will be ok...i think its just the nerves getting the better of u...just do dua all goes well
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yup I agree , have some tolerance people .. you dont like a thread , ignore and move on .. why do you have to rant and rant and leave extremely annoying , arrogant, rude remarks
anyways , Nadz … you will be ok inshallah … I hope ..
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First, please don't ever send me rude and nasty private messages again, esp. one's i can barely make sense of.
Second, I think the nasty one out of the two of us here is you Nadz. All I said was I don't like reading stuff like this. Never did I say "I hope nothing works out for you or you suffer more." Unlike you, who is hoping and praying that I have problems (and even worse things in the PM you sent me) and that my problems never work out. I do hope it works out for you, but really, your attitude is just so negative. Actually, what you said wasn't just nasty, that was just plain evil. No wonder your so unhappy.
Third, I can guarantee you I have bigger wedding related problems than you, and probably a lot of other brides too, so no need to make such horrible dua's for our suffering...
Lastly, I can read and write whatever I please. If I wanted to make a comment, I did. This is a public forum after all. I never wished you any ill, all i said was your threads stress me out too. If you can't deal with that then you can take your own advice and just skip over all of my comments. I'm a bride to be too and am entitled to a bridezilla moment.
No1 was insulting you, all i said why do you have to rant and rave about everything from how fat you are or how ur fiance dared to chose brown cards to how nasty ur cousins are. The list is ENDLESS!!! and some of us get irritated by it as this isn't a rant forum.
I'm beginning to get the picture.... give as many immature bad dua's as you like as you only insult yourself.
nadz babe no one is trying to mess with you so just relax and this is the time of your life when you need maximum of prayers and good wishes as most of us in this forum are inshAllah brides to be so we were just saying that it stresses us out more when we see you panicking. i pray things get better with you and the way you want them to be done. we are muslim sisters and should not say such bud duaas to each other. i guess you are getting married too early for your age because you do not seem to grasp the sensitivity of the event. i pray Allah gives you more sabar amen. shadi is not just a festivity its a LOT more than those 3 days that you are stressing out for. i hope things get alright with you inshAllah. and no one is fighting with you just relax
