did anyone else feel like me days before their wedding?

woooh.. someone stepped on a nerve.. haha now now.. u have the right to tell us every stressful thing happening in your life as well..

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wow ppl r being kinda mean to nadz.... anyway nadzz jus try and relax hopes it all works out for u :)

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allow these rude ppl nadz...aint worth it xxx

OHHHH PUHHLEASEEE if my private message so bad, send it to the mods....or send me pm back...why bother making it sound worse than it was by conveying to everyone else that i wished you more suffering....i didnt even use the damn word. so stop trying to be manipulative.i had something to say so i pmed you, you can do the same.

and yes you have the right to post anything on a public forum, then use that same courtesy for me...you didnt need to reply to my posts if they annoy you.

and who are you to assume that your problems are bigger than mine, yes im posting lil things here and there, that doesnt mean il post everything, quite frankly the responses are so goddamn rude that i wouldnt bother tryin to post a serious post just to get the piss taken out of....

and i didnt declare myself the only bride to be..so get overyourself, we are not the same people.so dont compare yourself. if you wana moan and rant. do it. let me do what i want to do. if it annoys you, ignore.

so you have a nice day madam....

i will thanks x

tell me about it...i didnt say anything about hoping she would suffer, and they call me drama queen!!!!i said what i said here before, that if she has any issues like me, then hope she gets the same rude answers that she gives....

i find there to be a difference......

if she disagrees, please pm me....like i did. otherwise besti to yaha bi ho sakti hain....

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tolerance is the key word here

Nadz as mizz khan sed just allow them, and dont stop posting!!!

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this girl OBVIOUSLY needs to vent. let her..how is it affecting our lives?
nadz i havent really been following any of the threads you open up but you seem to have a lot of problems..dont worry homegirl take it easy!

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u need to justify urself to anyone its clear nadz that the person who replied to ur pm oh ths thread just wants ot.her people to go against u because she could have clearly just pm'd u back...

people who dont like posts from certain people just ignore opening the thread and then there will be no problem...seee its as easy as that

nadz u carry on how ever u want sometimes the issues u have can be the same issue someone else is going through so its helps who ever needs it

thers r some good people still here who would be more than happy to help share ur problems :)

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*u dont need to justify

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yeh i know, thanks loviess................xxx

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Cheese and Crackers, anyone???

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YES please, wait hang on.....bloody diet

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next thread by nadz123 will be titled" why did rupayhalwa made me eat cheese with crackers??i gained quarter of a pound im ruined"

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nadz123, I'm not getting married anytime soon, but I can imagine what you are going through... remember to recite Allah (SWT)'s name Al-Sabur (The Patient), it'll give you a sense of calm and sukoon...

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well back to the original topic...nadz i know what u maybe going through bc i myself am so fragile at the moment even though my wedding is in early 2010 and just thinking about the transition into married life just makes me wanna sob.

The day after my eng. i felt a change overnight and just couldnt stop crying for no reason and as time for the wedding is approaching ive become so much more delicate and it takes less than a sec to tick me off. The only thing tht keeps me calm is obviously Allah swt and also thinking of how a new chapter of your life is about to begin.

Every grl has to go through this transition and before you know it itll be all good I'A. I'm pretty sure you'll look back at this years from now and kinda laugh at urslef.

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^ same here.....
Rsheikh, when my wedding was announced for oct. i was crying all the time.... but its been delayed now.. probably it'll be in 2010,INSHALLAH.. but still the feeling is there that you'll be leaving home soon, while ur siblings n parents will still be there...together.
But everything happens for good, And May ALLAH bless us with lots of happiness and wonderful married life... Ameen.

why dont u jus leave her alone????

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My advice as a married woman is to look on the bright side..a few days after my wedding i ws v upset all the time too.
Then i heard about a girl who caught fire on her mehndi night and died..i felt so sad she never got to meet her husband or enjoy the life i have now.
Think about ur future and thank Allah u are about to go through the best experience as a woman..think about all the amazing times ull hav with ur hubby..that makes me feel good..dnt gt me wrong marriage isnt easy it takes tolerance, understanding and determination but once you have conquered those InshAllah u will enjoy a happy married life.
I thought id miss my fam so much but its weird because the times when my fam wud cheer me up my husband now does that so its almost as if hes taken their place.
Ppl may feel differently but thats my advice :)

x

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^rabia i so agree with you girls should see to the brighter side like how they shall enjoy and start a new life with the one they love instead of whining over nostalgia:)

zayma id have left her alone but babe im getting married too and her posts make me sad i want to read postive things from girls who are going to get married i just pray she gets sabar and iman she is my muslim sister i just want her to be happy thats it!
peace

naz my mom told me this really great qurani dua. n it really works( just need to hav fait in Allah)its 24th ayat of sura Qasas.

my mother told me to recite it daily. n that these relationships require compromise, patience n trust…n the compromises u make really pays off. inshAllah everything will b ok no need to worry i’ll remember u in my payers.:flowers: