Re: Dhikr
Peace Sister Kinzz
You have nothing to worry about … 
It is not whether Allah (SWT) answers your prayer or not that determines your success … What determines your success is that you are given tawfiq to time and again turn back to Allah (SWT) … Since you do not forget Him, He has not forgotten you … To ask from Allah (SWT) is itself a blessing. For those from whom Allah (SWT) turns away they forget Him and they know no anguish and if they want something and get it - they praise their own efforts and remain heedless of Allah (SWT) such people are cursed …
Also a good technique is to ask others to pray for you. Undertake your duties and then put effort towards what it is you lack in life - but it has to be real effort. Thinking about something, is not like speaking about it which is not like doing things to make it happen … Combine these things in your life and see what happens … I’ll make a special request for your du’as to be answered as well. Dzikr indeed increases your proximity to Divine Presence, but it takes time … For quick results alongside doing this ask those who remember Allah (SWT) and love His habib (SAW) to pray for you.