Re: Dewar vs. Bhabhi
[quote=Code_Red]
it seems people hardly pay attention to the crux of the matter ...
The message in the exlplanation in the second post is very clear, I dont see anywhere it is questioning you good sweet relations with dever/bhabi /inlaws how you respect them and blah blah..
All it is saying that you should not be alone with your dever (brother in law) or bhabi (sister in law) un-necessarily. Becuase it can lead to gossips at the very least or some ugly situation at the very worst.
I dont see any problem being friendly, cordial and confidant with your dever and bhabi. And in our social setup it is consider very friendly relationship. You hardly ever hear any married women complaining about his Male in laws in terms of respect or understanding, even if they keep on blabberin about female inlaws.
Also, in our social setup dever often take bhaibis into confidence if they like someone or any other secret matter which they dont disclose to anyone else, even to their siblings...but thats only even when they have confidence that she can keep the secret.
Dever bhabi relationship is lovely, when both parties respect the boundries.
[quote=Code_Red]
I think this should be the ANSWER of everything asked...very well!!!