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hehe Mirch leave the poor guy alone...Apparently he is over that girl but the problem is now he needs to find a new one to care for and pamper and he doesn't have time for that due to his tough work schedule! He just wanted that particular one so he won't have to go through the struggle of finding the "right one" at such point in life! haina Ronery?
by teh way, we used to have a few rishte wali massis on GS.. would you like to contact them?!?!
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Yaar mirch, larka depressed hy, bachi ky bary meen bat kerna chahta,
He probably have made ppl, around him, sick talking about her.
So let him talk about her.
Be kind dude. we all bn there.
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I been telling mods that we should have a ‘Rishta’ corner here. 
but no one listens to me … how rude 
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Pray 2 ALLAH to help you sort out your ways 
everything will be fine InshAllah
Pray that if she was the best option , god send her back
but if she wasn’t help you find the best for you
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If you loved her so much, then why did you let her go?
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Another thing, God will never leave you empty
He will replace everything you lost . If HE asks you to put something down , it because HE wants you to pick up something greater - good luck
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waisay mujay bhe yehi khiyal aa raha hey
everything but the girl :hinna:
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lets take a trip down memory lane shall we. :@:
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reminds me of the song
i'm never goona dance again , guilty feeling , i got no rythymn - by George Micheal
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Agree:k:…
Did I agree with u before too…seems like deja vu to me:hmmm:…
But anyway Good positive point
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Forget her.
The Following is a letter written to Hazrat Ashraf Ali Thanvi (Ra) from a man Suffering from Love Sickness and seeking Advice.
FROM ONE MADLY IN LOVE:
Letter 1)
Reply 1) from Hazrat Ashraf Ali Thanvi (Ra)
Leave the company of the beloved one immediately. This separation should be both Physical and intellectual.
Physical seperation entails that you do not converse with her, nor do you allow her to converse with you. Do not look at her, do not allow anyone, to discuss her in your presence, nor should you ever discuss her before anyone.
Mental separation entails that you do not deliberately entertain or introduce any thoughts about her in the mind. Involuntarily if her thought or image flashes in your mind engage yourself in some diversionary activity at once.
Make dua to Allah abundantly for assistance.
Constantly engage in Zikr of Allah no matter how routine or mechanical it appears.
Thereafter inform me of your progress.
Letter 2) ....From The One Madly In Love:
Reply from Hazrat Thanvi (RA)
Letter 3) .....From the one Madly in Love.
Reply Of Hazrat Thanvi (Ra)
Totally agree:)
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Theres bad news. The pain won't go away.
Luckily you'll adapt to living with it. Kinda like how you go numb after someone has kicked you seven or eight times. After that they can continue kicking you and you won't feel a thing.
The pain though will stay.
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^^exactly go marry her!
honestly, it's not the end of the world.. ppl come/go in your life.. you learn to live with/without them.
Last but not least, let your parents choose your life partner and *you will forget the other girl the minute you would see her all dolled up as your bride. Trust me!
*
I totally disagree with this statement. First of all there is no guarantee that he will forget his ex. Second of all I am going through what he is and believe me when I see my fiance dressed up it doesn't make me forget my ex AT ALL if anything it just reminds me more of him!
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nope 
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The reality of life is that it doesn't come to a standstill for a long time. We loose our loved ones and it seems as life is going to be over. But life doesn't come to an end instead it goes on. It's just matter of time. Sometimes it can be few days or sometimes few weeks depending on our life styles. To me a person can typical become normal and can go on with his/her life in 3-6 months. Of course there are exceptions.
Love is something that can happen again, so move on dude. Also get some life other than the work, eat and sleep. There are so many activities that you can get involved into and they don't necessarily require a significant other. Literature, nature, adventure, sports, gym, volunteer work etc.
Just move your butt out of your seat and do something!
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Timr is the best healer, even though u feel so negative ryt now with time this will change and u will find sum1 else, even thou u never see that happening now,
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^ totally agree...
