Re: desperatly confused newly wed
i think if you feel the need to change someone after you've married them, you probably shouldn't have married them in the first place.
u r absolutely wrong...
... people need to change or rather better accommodate themselves for eachothers after the marriage... u can't continue to handle the certain things, your family and friends or certain situations the same way after the marriage as you used to do them when u were single.
women do change alot after the marriage... and she does change her husband too... but that change in him comes with time... probably in years...