Re: desperatly confused newly wed
I really sympathize with your hubby. You don't realize it but you're really hurting him and taking away his rights over you. You're clearly rejecting him which is very sad! It seems like you don't really know what exactly is causing you not to be intimate with your husband, you say he's unattractive but you didn't really explain how? Also, I don't think he's THAT ugly for you to reject in such a harsh way. I hope I'm wrong but your reasons to not want him 'could be' your own health problems. Just to rule out the health part, see a good physician and have yourself checked for all possible diseases like thyroid, diabetes, etc which cause low s** libido. Good luck.