Re: desperatly confused newly wed
x2 i agree wid wat u r saying but wat i am saying that she would have made this move b4,
agreed 100%, the sooner u kow its not going to work and end it the better off you are, teh stakes keep getting higher at each level, from just rishta to engagement to wedding to kids etc. but just because she did not make this move before does not mean she should not make it now.
u know how ppl are in pakistan they blow everything outta proportion so that is wat i was saying,
do we live our life for ourselves or for 'people' > i mean to some extent balancing the two out makes sense, but you cant be miserable to keep others content.
now if she does n e thing the ppl mite have questions about the guy aswell and his family, y put them thru that if they r nice to u. Thats ma point tho.
still not enough of a justification to not end it. if someone is in their 20's they need to realize that they were kids until a few years ao and have a long life ahead of them based on avg age spans, do they want to live this life being unhappy?
oh and queenbee, for your own sake I am hoping that you are using protection of some sort because if you get pregnant than that creates additional complexities.