Re: desperatly confused newly wed
very nicely put, Fraudia bhai. no doubt about this what you have said.
best,
Dushwari
let me make it very simple, you only have 3 choices,
1) let things be as they are - i.e. you are not happy, and eventually he will not be happy and then since he will not be happy his family will not be happy and both of you live in a thankless marriage and all of them have an unhappy family.
2) learn to live with the guy somehow - it does not sound like there is one victim here, how was that dude supposed to know you did not want to marry him, who knows maybe he is posting somewhere that he really loves his wife and she seems to be repulsed by him and what to do.
3) get out of the situation- whether it is by involving people and ending the marriage, and if they cant or wont help you then by packing up and getting on a flight to UK and making your own life. If 19-20 year old guys who have never seen UK can go there and go to schoola nd support themselves then a UK citizen who can get unemployment benefits, housing benefits and able to work anywhere should be able to do it as well.