Re: desperatly confused newly wed
Okeee i understand that you were forced to get married and i am truely sorry to hear that but now you are married NOW!!!! i mean explain your hubby that its hard for you to adjust in a new family and lifestyle...talk to him and explain him that you need some time before you guys can get physical....instead of cringing and making him feel bad, tell him k you want to know him more...tell him that you need to know him first...try to understand him as a person..his likes n dislikes....his lifestyle...ect ect ect...i think he respect your feeling alot cuz he still havent forced you to do anything...i mean he could have done that like on you wedding night but he is giving you your space....so you should appreciate that
one thing why does he gross you out so much???? i mean is it the looks....i mean does he use alot of oil in his hair??? i mean what is it???? if you only hate him cuz you were forced to marry him phir thats wrong.....give him a chance na..i mean you said he likes you...so just respect his feelings and try to get along with him....you are Mashallah very lucky to have a husband who likes you...caring inlaws...wat else do you want.....just stop thinkng about your past and how you were forced into your marriage...try to think about your present and how you can enjoy your new life with you husband...stop feeling bad for yourself!