Re: desperatly confused newly wed
^ i agree, but i also see lusi's point of view... why go thru the drama and mess of a marriage given all the complications? keeping quiet will never change anything.
One has to think how serious are those doubts. I have seen many desi who say that they were not inclined towards the person their parents choose for them, but after marriage their opinion changed. If one is certain that the marriage is not going to work out because of reasons that compatiblity is beyond any repair or compromise than one should speak up. If someone thinks that the union will result in a mess than one should speak up, but we can not put our own opinion as the last word. Sometimes it is wise to know what others think and their opinion is on the doubts.