Re: desperatly confused newly wed
good point.
Fraudia bhai, why aren't people perceptive of the systematic delimitations is because they have no limitations, no clear expectations from both sides - that are forming the couple - woman and the man.
and so, yes, exactly why all print and media articles, drama series, pictures, programming geared to women stereotypes and socializes them to remain as pleasing step stools and muted back biters, where as men are depicted as absolute abusers mostly and also cowards and expected to act like so.
unless this changes, nothing will change. no woman and man will feel safe with anyone from the opposite genders and no man or woman can feel what s/he truly wants and deserves. be it relationship formed on ones own or arranged/matched-made.
best,
Dushwari
so if wives are able to transofrm theri husbands 5 minutes into marriage why is our culture and society filled with women bythinng and moanign about their husbands, your ladies digests, dramas, heck even on this forum, we see women complain about their hubbies, or how their hubbies dont do much in helping deal with the inlaws.
so do men change? do they change enough? why all the complaining then?
anyways diff topic :)