I have not seen Pakistani bad mouthing Pakistan in the presence of non Pakistani people. We only do that when we are among our own kind and all we bad mouth is corruption which is so rampant in every where in Pakistan.
We talk about corrupt politicians, corrupt judiciary , corrupt police , corrupt Generals , corrupt administration , corrupt educators, corrupt mullas.
The people of Pakistan are hostage at the hands of these corrupt people. All we can do is rant or pray, so we rant and pray.
We also talk about other desies being fob , abcd, paindo and other kind of stereo typing just for fun. What else is there to talk about in desi parties , we do not gamble , we do not go to clubs , we do not worship filmstars, we are not indulged into any kind of mainstream activities of the west even if someone tries to talk about these mainstream the conversation is over in few sentences and we go back to other desi topics.
Anybody disagrees they are free to open a new thread in AV on this topic as to what desi talk about in their parties. 