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what are children coming to see you for anyways..michael
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Well what can I say my lil nephew andhis pals like me so sometimes I have a lil baccha party for them...they enjoy it and I love it too...and don;t be callin me no michael :p
Re: Desies and common courtesy
I’ve noticed the same, But it’s the guys making you uncomfortable and unwelcome n they are the ones nervous,shy and all tensed..
Some desi guys are very weird, they are normal with other people, but when it comes to desi girls they put on a face, n all they think abt is marriage..
As for manners, my selected few desi guy friends have manners n respect..they would go out of their way to help..
I think some guys from pakistan have more manners and are cultured than the ones who have been raised here…
but everyone is different n every situation is different, so sorry for generalizing…
Maybe, but with me, on a night out, my gorai maties all wait for me to be picked up 
at one point there was 30 of them waiting with me for abu :=p so, I don’t know. Plus the guys always open doors, let me go first, carry stuff sometimes :=p
I do the same of course but it does happen, depending on the circles you travel in. I do have one male friend though who always insists on going through doors first. 
Let me just ask a clarification question before I fully dive into this discussion… are we talking about ‘signicant others’ when walking to the car or just about any girl you struck a conversation with at a gathering?
PS. Sorry for the delayed entry. I was walking a dozen or so girls to their cars
^ yeah depends actually… well my highschool gore friends were all very sweet and opened doors and stuff… or sometimes opened them and locked me out :halo: but my uni mates were blaaaah! they had no manners whatsoever…
ur lucky hiccup
the desi girls here in australia open the doors for us guys and tell her to,, "chalo bacho gaari main baitho, get in!" and then they drive us around town, with some weird desi music playing :D
oh man! so I gather that boys shud walk girls to their cars only to score some points? 
I’d never do that…she shud be happy I endured her stay with me in the first place
as for desi girls at parties…the tension can often be sensed in such a situation…everyone suffers from it, even boys…the trick is to realize it and take advantage of it: Just ask a random question unexpectedly; how often won’t u notice the confused look in their eyes, and the inability to answer 
Who says it has to be your significant other? 
It could be anybody, a group of friends, etc.
Sheesh kebabs!
Why are we stuck on just walking a girl to her car? There are other things too … just the way people talk to each other would be a good start.
Yes, Mehnaz it doesn't have to be your significant other. I have accompanied girls to the rrestrooms too (just outside). So walking them to the car in a dark parking lot is no big deal really.
Whats the rule for eye-contact? Should it suddenly be avoided at all costs anytime you happen to bump into a fellow desi?
The rule is to make the eye contact if you are interested in the girl and avoid it if you don’t want to convey a wrong message…however it is important when you are ‘listening’ to other person (male/female)…it is part of the communication
If you can’t do these simple things, how you are gona dance with them at party
And ofcourse there is HAWOLEEN “–” comming up 
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and make sure that they leave after its light out right, dude you are a true gentlemen. :) you rock and stuff
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mrf...lights are always out at my loveshack (and it has nothing to do with me not paying my bills)