Desi women

diwana · September 21, 2011, 2:31pm

Never get too friendly with them.

They are too quick to start seeing ‘dreams’ of wedding lahanga!

Pleaj discuss:

(Oh! its not the quality of desi women only, but ignore that for now)

BarbieCue · September 21, 2011, 2:34pm

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The_Jinx · September 21, 2011, 2:34pm

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lol

Mirch · September 21, 2011, 2:40pm

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I am wondering what if she has already worn wedding lehnga once and is still happily married had half a dozen kids , what does she dream of ?

CM · September 21, 2011, 2:44pm

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Making her hubby the perfect sammich.

The_Jinx · September 21, 2011, 2:44pm

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Do married women get friendly?

Enigmatic · September 21, 2011, 2:48pm

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^can't they ? if it's just friendliness ...and not something to be taken as flirtiyan :D

hareem01 · September 21, 2011, 2:58pm

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Why are we talking about married women here?

Mirch · September 21, 2011, 3:00pm

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Are they an extinct species ?

hareem01 · September 21, 2011, 3:19pm

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No Never.

Disney_Princess · September 21, 2011, 3:37pm

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So now women aren’t allowed to be friendly?? There’s just no winning with some people…:hinna:

hareem01 · September 21, 2011, 3:54pm

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Of course they are allowed to be friendly…only with other desi women.

Mirch · September 21, 2011, 4:02pm

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Only to mehrams.

IceSoul · September 21, 2011, 5:19pm

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Reminds me of the FB like:
"Dear girls, I've sent a friend request, not a marriage proposal" :p

Exodus · September 21, 2011, 5:37pm

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Few facts worth going through.

There is no such thing as a Desi/Widesi in Pakistan.
The whole concept of calling each other Desis is more to do with them Indians/Hindus.
Desi/deshi/wideshi are all hindi words.
Past experiences make rage guaranteed if called one, ever.

/endofrantnumber2

Gaia · September 21, 2011, 5:37pm

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^ ya but it’s pretty creepy when you send a request to a random as hell person. Like the other day I got poked by some guy, who wasn’t even my friend . That’s very creepy!

Theorist · September 21, 2011, 5:40pm

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Very true! When my grandma came here, she would hear us calling other Pakistanis Desis and for the longest time she was puzzled as to who we were talking about. After a while, she started addressing other Pakistanis as Desis too.

Theorist · September 21, 2011, 5:41pm

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I don’t think that’s creepy at all. That’s how FB works. I added a cousin of mine from Pakistan a few months ago and the day after that all his friends started sending me invites. I wasn’t sure how to react but I didn’t find it creepy.

IceSoul · September 21, 2011, 5:43pm

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Now that’s creepy…

Exodus · September 21, 2011, 6:11pm

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So you do agree with me ehh, to a certain acceptable extent hi sahi lekin you do. donthate.

I propose its much better if we come up with something of our own instead of using something thats top to bottom hindi. But hey, thats just my opinion.

And yes, I do agree somewhat with the unnecessary hater above. Adding up cousins should be alright, random people though, not so recommended. Unless they’re really worth taking the risk for, in that certain case I guess exceptions can be made.