Desi wives

well i am not a mood for figth today.

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desi wives are the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wake up in the morning getting a nice feet massage... breakfast hot and ready when you go downstairs, clothes crispy n ready to go...socks out for u on your bed when you come back from shower. come from work and get a nice massage (of course i take care of her too) but all i have to say is DESI WIVES are the best.

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^ such a wife i would'nt want or like.

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^Why not?

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Because some men actually like their wives to be their equals, not maids.

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Obviously the topic was about desi wives...not about men. I didn't mention anything about what I do for my wife so you're only seeing one side of the story buddy.

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Guys he did say he takes care of her too..... so yall dont know how much he does for her..

anyways its' really silly to say... a desi wife is the best or the gori wife is the best..just like the thread about american vs desi guys, ull find good and bad spouses in every race/culture...i dont know a single hting that goris could have that desi girls can't and vice versa

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oh…i have one too…wife…not much desi…but a wife indeed…:chai:

Daad deta hoon aapki bahaduri ki :salute:

:emmy:

daad free hai na? bill aya to tum responsible ho. :halo:

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^^ lol

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Come on Sara show em the desi side of you :D

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Rockistan thats good and maybe to you that is what works, that is what you like but there are a lot of men who don't like their wives to me their moms. I mean off course they want to be taken care of but in a different way.

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I thought guys massage the feet of their moms and not the vice versa....

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^^ I never said I didn't massage my moms feet. Till this day I do, but I also return the favor to my wife once in a while :)

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Hey I guess whatever works for each couple is fine.

Desi wives, well what can I say. I am one. I guess things have changed over the years. But so have men's expectations. So I guess at the end of the day, we all adjust accordingly.

And like some people said, we can't say if desi wives are better or worse than non-desi wives. Everyone has their unique experience.

i would narrow down desi wives to 3 categories:

  1. totally suppressed, have no option but to abide by the law of the head of the house
  2. Totally submissive, Hubby is the ultimate. She does everything for him and the kids from cooking to ironing to washing etc. All on her own will, by the way
  3. The outgoing type, who give a damn about everyone and have hubbies who are more ‘jorru ka ghulam’ type

Like Niksik said, we cant generalize them all, every one has different experiences. Overall, i think desi wives mostly prove to be great wives and a supportive helping hand! :hugz:

wow..u massage ur mom's AND ur wife's feet?.. thats pretty rare, it shows that ur very humble, especially towards women..looks like ur wife has found a gem..i think she is a khushkismaat desi wife. :)