Desi Weddings..Crashing and Burning..

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Re: Desi Weddings..Crashing and Burning..

@Bobby1

Almost same rate of divorce but the difference is that they are able to handle it a lot better, girls dont have to rely on immediate family for support, divorce is not a stigma, girls almost immediately start dating again and western guys have no issues with blended children. Most of my kids friends are in the same boat. Most parents are on their second marriages with his/hers and ours kids.
Goras dont have the in-law crap and gender roles are not that undefined. And there is no east meet west complications.

White people have crappy in-law issues too. Why do you stereotype and generalize about desis and white people? There is a stigma attached to white divorced women in the western world too perhaps not as much as in some communities amongst desis but to generalize all “goras” or all desis is just annoying.
You have to actually be in a horribly, bad marriage and actually experience what the two people went through. Divorce is the last thing on anybody’s mind when they first get married, i’m sure, I think human beings go into marriage with good intentions hoping that it will succeed regardless of whether it’s a love or arranged marriage but I think you need to experience the divorce of your own child or one of your nephews or nieces to actually understand how complicated and painful it can get. It’s not something you should be all high and mighty about. There’s a tad bit of arrogance in the tone of your opening comment. You sound so naive like everything regarding marriage and life is black or white no grey area.