Desi Weddings..Crashing and Burning..

[Bobby1]

Re: Desi Weddings..Crashing and Burning..

@redvelvet

^ So in essence, you’re saying..“Folks, y’all need to live life the way I do, raise kids the way I do.”

Should have just said that point blank in the first post. Would have saved time.

Bobby Sahib, how do you know that Desis have not acknowledged their problems? Please, no anecdotes. They don’t prove acknowledgment. Look at the bulk or our desi dramas/soap operas and you’ll find that conflicts with in-laws is a common theme. It’s said that art imitates life. What we see on TV is a direct reflection of the values and issues we see in real life. Heck even in Desi talk shows, various marital and cultural issues have been discussed. They often make the news headlines too. So, all of these examples are EVIDENCE that Desis do acknowledge their issues. You can’t tar everyone with the same brush.

Maybe, tell us how you are living and then people can decide if they want to be you in 10/15 yrs. I am referring to the most comprehensive research to date in America on this subject. Most of the people did not even know how high the divorce rate is. Talking on and soap operas solve problems, right? If you acknowledge a problem than it should get better, why is it getting worse?

Read Julies recommendations, that is how you make it better.