I agree sis.
but if ppl are not good enough kids will learn more bad things rather than good things.
We have to keep an eye on our kids what they are leaning. No matter what you taught them if they see something wrong other kids are doing they will learn quickly.
Language......bhi different style aur different ho jati hai.........they will learn gundi language as galies and othe things too.
Its very hard to find extra ordinary good family to let you kids to learn everthing same as you want.
actually it's not hard to find good families. alhamdulilah, the few families we know are good families. their children are well behaved, and those of the children that are married and have their own kids are also very respectful and good, because they have been taught well. yes there are really weird families, and we know them, but since i do not agree with their point of views (the children because that's who i was supposed to hang out with) i refused outright to meet them. all because my parents have definitely taught me well.
that's why if you behave well, you meet people who behave well, and your children will also learn to behave well. ofcourse there isn't a single family out there that is perfect, but if the issues are absolutely minor, then why not ignore, move on and build a good relationship?