I’ve heard some girls say you can’t be too friendly with desi men, they cannot seem to comprehend that you’re only being nice/friendly and not flirty. They misunderstand very easily.
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can't be too friendly with them..lol ...desi men na ho gaye, magarmach ho gaye.
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You’re supposed to agree and annoy them, silly 
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Miss Q starting drama 
But I agree, to some extent. Especially those who are born and raised in Pakistan, they are more “shy” and their upbringing does not consist of much interaction with the opposite gender. Therefore, it’s harder for them to judge a girls intentions when a girl is being “extra” nice. (*I don’t think there is necessarily anything wrong with that) *
It also has to do with the upbringing of girls, as they themselves do not have much interactions with guys, so those who are able to easily talk to guys are confident and are assertive while they talk; which to a guy may seem flirty.
BUT for the most part I think girls are WAY TOO quick to say that Pakistani men misunderstand nice with flirty.
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they already sound pretty annoyed…
btw, yes I agree with you.
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I agree to some extent. Esp for those who have lived a greater deal in Pakistan and have not studied much in co-education. Desi men can be a bit full of themselves and take friendliness as ‘she definitely has a crush on me’ vibes
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I am sorry girls are no saints either. If a non-desi guy invites a girl to his place for 10 minutes so that he can get something they have no issues. A desi guy does that its supposedly a come on.
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***I could stick around and get along with you
Hello o oh o
It doesn’t really mean that I’m into you
Hello oh o o
Yeah I think you’re cute but really you should know
I just came to say hello
*** 
Actually I think desi girls too do just that.
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Since the only male population that watches Bollywood movies religiously are “desi” men, this is expected. Thanks to the culture war we have been losing all along such that our electronic media and entertainment channels try extremely hard to copy “them”. This cross-border infiltration is disapponting especially when one witnesses the style of fake sensationalism, the unprofessional choice of wording that depicts nothing short of the language in hindi media and the shameful dress attire.
I hope I did not derail the conversation. My point was that it’s more of a matter of wrong choices in the life that have rendered “desi” men in flirting category.
And by that token, females of the desi clan are no excpetion either 
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Excoose you, have you not made jokes about me wanting to get married to Shakuntala devi just coz I’m so friendly with her? 
He’s my gay brother for goodness sake!
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There is more than meets the eye to your relationship. That is for certain!
We all know you have the hots for him.
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it takes 2 to clap 
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Thank you for proving my point. You’re a typical desi man
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I am sorry girls are no saints either. If a non-desi guy invites a girl to his place for 10 minutes so that he can get something they have no issues. A desi guy does that its supposedly a come on.
Difference of cultures.
For a non-desi guy it's no big deal to see a girl wear extra tight clothes, getting hugs from girls, going out to lunch just one on one (but not a date), etc. because that's what they have been seeing all their life, it's no big deal. So desi girls don't think twice about talking to non-desi guys.
But you know from our culture, boys and girls are meant to keep a distance, so if a desi guy invites you over, it's so out of the norm that you DO think twice about their intentions.
But than again, this is coming from a girl who wouldn't go to ANY guys place for even 10 minutes.
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Where there is smoke there is fire. Hot burning love fire :D
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BBQ, remember that one time, like a year ago, you said “Hi” to me.. well I may as well admit it, I fell for you since then. :hinna:
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Difference of cultures.
For a non-desi guy it's no big deal to see a girl wear extra tight clothes, getting hugs from girls, going out to lunch just one on one (but not a date), etc. because that's what they have been seeing all their life, it's no big deal. So desi girls don't think twice about talking to non-desi guys.
But you know from our culture, boys and girls are meant to keep a distance, so if a desi guy invites you over, it's so out of the norm that you DO think twice about their intentions.
But than again, this is coming from a girl who wouldn't go to ANY guys place for even 10 minutes.
So the problem is with the woman and not with the man eh? It is the assumptions they make.
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Ya, and that's what I said in my first post. Girls are TOO quick to judge guys.
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Typical! hmph
Lies! You’re in love with CM! The way he talks about you… it’s like he’s burning in pyar ki aag! 
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Good we agree. Only desi women are at fault. Like always.