Re: "Desi" men
Oh don't get me wrong amana.
I am somewhat anti-desi myself. Truthfully, there are times I wish I was not desi. I wish I wasn't brown, I wish I didn't eat chicken tikkas, and I wish that I could watch cultural television without hearing typical lines like "Oh behtiyaan ki shaadi karwaani hain", and "oh she's going to make such a good wife"... what I hear is "Oh I gotta sell my dog", or "this dog will be so obedient to her master".
Well anyway, rest assured. Desis in general are slobs. They have very little host-guest manners, period.