So, I’ve been ‘talking’ to a guy for a few weeks and it came up in conversation he has had past relationships with white females. The relationships were ofcourse sexual. To be honest it put me off, and in a subliminal manner I mentioned that. It lead to a back and forth debate. He said I’m being over dramatic. I remember previously he mentioned desi girls in interracial relationships to be sluts and dirty. So my question is, why is interracial dating tainting when it comes to a desi female? And why do desi men think having sexual relationships before marriage is okay for them?
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sounds like a real winner.
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girls should date white men only , this would not make them say anything bad , they say becaz girls date desi men 
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so true .... Iraj hav a point ... :D
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So, I've been 'talking' to a guy for a few weeks and it came up in conversation he has had past relationships with white females. The relationships were ofcourse sexual. To be honest it put me off, and in a subliminal manner I mentioned that. It lead to a back and forth debate. He said I'm being over dramatic. I remember previously he mentioned desi girls in interracial relationships to be sluts and dirty. So my question is, why is interracial dating tainting when it comes to a desi female?** And why do desi men think having sexual relationships before marriage is okay for them?**
Most men, including white men, think like this, even if they don't admit it, because women can get pregnant and a woman who gets around might cheat on you later (and could lie to you about it). In Western culture it's acceptable for both sexes to date but a lot of women still lie about the number of partners they've had. The difference is that in our culture, the divide is so stark.
I would question this guy's mentality because he's calling girls sluts.
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Most men, including white men, think like this, even if they don't admit it, because women can get pregnant and a woman who gets around might cheat on you later (and could lie to you about it). In Western culture it's acceptable for both sexes to date but a lot of women still lie about the number of partners they've had. The difference is that in our culture, the divide is so stark.
I would question this guy's mentality because he's calling girls sluts.
Couldn't the bold part be equally true for men as well??
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Couldn't the bold part be equally true for men as well??
Yes but if your wife cheated on you and lied about it and got pregnant, you wouldn't know that the child isn't yours unless you did a DNA test. You could end up raising a child that isn't yours. This is why men have double standards. It sucks but it is what it is.
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Yes but if your wife cheated on you and lied about it and got pregnant, you wouldn't know that the child isn't yours unless you did a DNA test. You could end up raising a child that isn't yours. This is why men have double standards. It sucks but it is what it is.
That's scary.
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What proportion of young desi men living in US/UK get to have sexual relationships (more than one) with white females?
Based on very close observation of dating and sexual patterns, I am willing to bet they are less than 25%. And this is despite the fact that desi men dont face anywhere the same restrictions from their families and community. What is the limiting factor then, one wonders?
princess1989, aap koi aur acchaa sa desi larka dhoond leejiye, from the other 75% who havent shctupped white girls (or any girls for that matter)
If you are bothered about the slut-stud double standard, in general, I will Inshallah make a separate thread on it and give you a fresh and politically incorrect perspective on why it exists. I hope the moderators dont give me the 5th infraction for using the word 'slut' though. They seem to have a problem with me.
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The title says DESI men..why the need to ask then ? 
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Some of these replies...lol. Thank you nonetheless.
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People sleep with variety of people because they are horny . I don't think so it has anything to do with color of their skin .
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^
and because they can.
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Double Standards or no standards for men.
Women still have to live up to a some kind of moral standards, Where as for men I guess the only expectation is not to be gay...
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and y do u worry so much about men , whether they sleep or not , its their business,
jis ki zindage aap k saath likhi hy wo aap ko zaroor milay ga ,
but es k liya itna soochnay ke zaroorat nahi, becaz no one is perfect,
also life for women/ girls is totally different in every aspect.
enjoy ure life :) don't waste it on such worries
He is a hippocrite and a male slut
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he is a fatty baldy ugly doggy?
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He is a hippocrite and a male slut
hamain bhi bata do yeh 'male slut' kaisay bantay hain. Aap keh lehjay say lagta hai keh boht asaan hoga.
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These same desi men who busy trying other races are the ones that tend to go back to Pakistan to find brides who haven't been around the block to save themselves possibly from raising some other man's child . They tend to suspicious Bc they themselves have no morals. Both men and women should fear god. It's also the responsibility of parents to talk their children and tell them what acceptable behavior is. Sometimes the fault lies in the parents and desi men. Islam says to marry off children when they have the need. Instead some parents are so terrified of bringing a Bahu that they don't care what he is doing outside as long as they don't have to share.