Re: Desi Men & White Girls
and y do u worry so much about men , whether they sleep or not , its their business,
jis ki zindage aap k saath likhi hy wo aap ko zaroor milay ga ,
but es k liya itna soochnay ke zaroorat nahi, becaz no one is perfect,
also life for women/ girls is totally different in every aspect.
enjoy ure life :) don't waste it on such worries
I was 'worrying' because he is a potential rishta.
Re: Desi Men & White Girls
These same desi men who busy trying other races are the ones that tend to go back to Pakistan to find brides who haven't been around the block They tend to suspicious Bc they themselves have no morals.
I guess its about priorities then. Why dont the girls back home give more importance to a guys purity instead of whether he is successfully settled abroad or not? Mashallah Pakistan has perhaps the largest population of virgin young men. Ironically, It is more easy to find a virgin guy than a non-virgin one in Pakistan.
Desi Men & White Girls
^^yes it is absolutely about priorities. People in Pakistan want to go abroad and want to marry their girls off so they can better off financially or settle their own families abroad. People abroad overlook certain things if the boy or girl is financially well settled (rich), has good job, is good looking...then they tend overlook background checks and grab the rishta. Yes it is absolutely about priorities! people do many things out of despair and the need to achieve a certain goal.
Re: Desi Men & White Girls
I guess its about priorities then. Why dont the girls back home give more importance to a guys purity instead of whether he is successfully settled abroad or not? Mashallah Pakistan has perhaps the largest population of virgin young men. Ironically, It is more easy to find a virgin guy than a non-virgin one in Pakistan.
This person is pretty switched on!
Male success = Female Virginity
Re: Desi Men & White Girls
but this will not help u in any case, ure tensions may turn things upside down, nothing more,
a reasonable person does not need justifications
and an unreasonable person does not pay attention to any logic
elaborate “potential” - rishta.
Re: Desi Men & White Girls
So, I've been 'talking' to a guy for a few weeks and it came up in conversation he has had past relationships with white females. The relationships were ofcourse sexual. To be honest it put me off, and in a subliminal manner I mentioned that. It lead to a back and forth debate. He said I'm being over dramatic. I remember previously he mentioned desi girls in interracial relationships to be sluts and dirty. So my question is, why is interracial dating tainting when it comes to a desi female? And why do desi men think having sexual relationships before marriage is okay for them?
Your name makes me hungry.
Re: Desi Men & White Girls
This person is pretty switched on!
Male success = Female Virginity
As you must have noticed, whenever this issue is discussed on any forum, some women try to portray (Desi) men's preference for virgin brides as some sort of collective subjugation of women.
Regardless of how ridiculous and Neanderthalic you may think men's priorities are, the reality is that no one is stopping women from demanding virgin husbands.
'Collective subjugation' it is not.