Desi couples that do not want kids - EVER

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Are they rare?

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is obama a black president?

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^This is not a Geico commercial.. :smack:

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I think couples that don't want kids EVER are rare in any culture.

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but you can save money if you dont have kids. That is also Gieco's theme.

I know of only one desi couple who did not want kids. But that was many years ago and I have not met them since. I am sure they have a minivan with 2 car seats in it now.

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Yes I know two.

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i have seen couples who don't have kids and are living together happily even after a decade or so after marriage.

But those who don't want kids ever : not come across any and doubt would

Theorist do you know of any? Am curious to know if there are some what are their reasons for not having kids ever at all

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I don't know of any.

I think couples who choose to wait are still kind of rare. :-/

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They should go and see some shrank :)

why would you deny such a bounty of your lord :(

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**desiyoN kaa ek hii jawaab hotaa hai:

"bachche Allah kii den haiN, jab de degaa ham le leNge...[as if they do NOT have to 'do' anything ;)]"****

lagtaa hai aasmaan se bachche girte haiN aur seedhe inke aangan meN...koii khajoor meN nahiiN aa ke aTaktaa :D**

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I know one couple, the guy doesn't mind but the wife is strict on this issue.

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No, i don't know a single desi couple that doesn't want kids. I and my husband do not want kids and don't see if we would ever change our mind. It's too big of a responsibility and we are so turned off by the idea of kids running around, pooping & crying, and changing their diapers and...well you get the picture. :D

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life is colorless without children. what make you to stay in this world?

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It's good that both of you have similar mindset towards this issue.

I know it's a very big responsibility and my husband really wants another child (4th one...he wants a girl) but I just can't make up my mind.

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I see many couples..

:blush:

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I know one…in their late 50’s now… They dont mind playing with others children… But just dont want their ownBoth can show signs of having ocd…need order over everything… Are prim and proper…and quite enjoy their social life and being able to go on spontaneous trips…They find our lives so messy and frustrating aswell as hard… We fins theirs so empty and lonelyBut at the end of the day, woh apnay ghar mein khush, hum apnay ghar mein :slight_smile: Secretly i keep telling my husband how awesomely cruel it would be if she were to get preg in this burhapa. Teeeheeeheee :cb:

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do it my way hareem. buy one, i'll pm you the website.

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Before u embark on this bootiful jpurney, do ask bhai sahab to write down a guarantee that the 4th will be a girl…just so ure not cursing ure ovaries out at the 20 week scan, after having seen another pee pee floating around. Hehe :cb:

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Not everyone feels this way.....

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Mere inlaws main kafi couple aise hain...

ore mere Susar (mashallah) 77years old hai ore woh sab ko mana kerte hain bache mat kerna ...zindagi azab ban jati hai:)