Seeking perfection is unrealistic since it doesn’t exist, but seeking goodness in others shouldn’t be unexpected. I believe that goodness exists in most people - but what do we consider to be good or decent and does that definition of goodness differ based on gender? Do we women define it differently than men?
Ladies, what defines goodness in your eyes? I’m not referring to chivalry and I’m not asking you to describe an ideal mate - but when you look at the men in your life: father, brother, husband, son, friend - what makes you call them good men?
Men, when you look at your brethren, what do you expect from another guy that makes him good?
A good man is the one who tries his level best to follow the teachings of his IDEAL in every field of life. He deals with every situation the way his role model would have dealt with (of course, he would consider his role model to be perfect).
He isn't good if he claims to be a follower/fan of someone, and practices what his heart wishes to, even if it is against the teachings of his IDEAL.
I've always seen how a good man is according to the little things he does, especially when he doesn't feel the need for other people to know about it. A man who helps someone with a buggy down the stairs even if he is going the other way is always going to be a sweetheart in my book : )
good is just too broad a word. everyone is a good man at some level, and humans are complex beings. good for what purpose, is the question.
Good as it relates to his interpersonal relationships and morality. Let's keep specific religiosity and financial/professional success out of the conversation.
mm.. sounds to me you are asking what kind of a guy would do the franshaps with. in which case, someone who isn't a mooch, someone who is self-reliant and not needy and asking for favors all the time, someone who doesn't talk too much bollywood or sports, and preferably with a mild taste for adventure.
^Yap and someone who has good in character. You can find paper educated people but if you can find the one who is educated without paper (with paper is bonus of course) and understanding..that is for me who is good person regardless of gender. And this is after so far experiencing going out with different women.
