Describe what a good man is like

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A good man is just like me :snooty:

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looking at what a desi man is getting in return to remain straight (desi girls ), I think he is jannati by default.

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:rotfl:

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The men in my life are all so different from one another, yet I see essential goodness in each of them. I don't know that there's a cookie cutter answer for who/what is good or not, but if I were to describe some of the traits that exemplify their goodness, it would be as follows (btw, not a single of one them has all of these traits, some have a few, some have others):

  • humility
  • compassion
  • consideration for others
  • generosity
  • an ability to laugh at oneself
  • selflessness, putting others before oneself
  • fairness
  • tolerance of differences
  • respect others
  • proud, not with false pride
  • honest
  • capacity to love and be inclusive of others

To add a caveat, does the absence of any of these traits make a person not good/bad, then my answer to that is no. Each person makes choices according to their circumstances. To quote queer, humans are complex beings and most have some goodness in them.

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But Shakeela, we're talking about good MEN here - you're excluded from the discussion :(

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and then we wake up :(

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A good man is someone you ladies wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole

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1) Honest
2)Genuine
3)Respectful
4)A good listener
5) thoughtful
6)Caring
7)Compassinate
8)A driven/motivated individual
9)Responsible
10 Trustworthy
11) Most of all, someone who makes mistakes but realizes where he is wrong and tries not to make the same mistakes again. Because no one can be perfect.