Re: Depression after marriage
His statement is
Never trust on anyone 100% . He or she will deceive u. Even don’t trust on mum too.
But I hv complain that itna trust tho kro that u share with me ur problems and give importance kay mri bat mano thou sahi.
He never share paise kahn day a rahay kahn jah rahay always he keeps with his statement. Business acha jah rahay ya nahi . He always discusses all with his mum from the first day. And hide it and other all things related to his family ‘s current doing from me.
His mum decided apnay Betsy ki shadi with one of my relatives. Kisi nay nahi batya. Engagement kay aik din phalay bata rahay hai who bhi main chila main thi. 4 saal engagement rahi. They never talk with about them. Bas eid pr sath chalo aur who aye thou un ko serve kro. Who mujhe Salam tak nahi kr rahay no problem. I am elder bahu koi Izat nahi krwai. Aur thou aur saas un kay sath batien krti aur jo who kahtay who thk samjh thi. They blame me on my mum that she is saying bad about in laws to everyone . 3 times aisa hua but he never say anything. Apni ama kay samnay silent. Is liye kahti thi mujhe lay kr separate ho jao who bhi nahi. Ama permission day thou na.
MRI koi izat nahi I am not Ghr ka Banda. 2 bahu aye is nay bhi same kiya in ko dakh kr. Phalay dosti ki sari reality jaan kr phr mujhe zaleel kiya. Tab bhi yah silent.
Now wt do I do. Relatives wali larki ki shadi hogye who hum Sab joint family main rah rahibho. Us ki shopping bahir dine out krna almost daily hai main kahon thou larai. Who aur baqi Bhai bhi branded kapray lay main bachon ka kaon thou said un ko gandi habit na adopt krnay do phr aam kapray nahi pahnao gaye. I got angry. Kaise convince kro kal ko un kay bachay hon Gaye who apnay bachay ko branded day gaye thou hamaray bachay feel nahi kare gaye.