i think its a little premature to categorize marriage as love/arranged, the outcome of the marriage usually has little to do with whether it was love or arranged, it has to, atleast in my opinion, with the time and detication each person puts into it.
i loved my husband before we got married, but we didn't go around falling in love with any person we saw, i grew up next door to him, and he was the first person i ever loved. just becasue a person has a love marriage doesn't mean that they've loved/had relationships with people before they met their spouce.
different strokes for different folks. if it works for, say, this one couple that sees each other's face for the first time under parental jurisdiction, or say, another couple that doesn't, its all good if they're happy at the end of the day.
^what r ya laughing at? it happens ya kno, its kinda common these days.
lol…guys and love marriages…many guys just say they want to do it just to get something if ya kno what i mean…or r relentlessly pressured by the girl to do so. i wanna let my moms decide who i marry, does that make me a loser, or sum1 who can’t find a girl?
^i kno right, i hate women like that…my preference is not of a girl who’s “looking for her mr. perfect” from her late teens to mid twenties. i mean i haven’t done that, i don’t wanna end up with a girl who’s been with god knows how many guys. unfortunately i kno many guys that have ended up with girls who sleep around and the guys have no clue until its too late. that goes vice vera, i feel bad for the shareef girls who end up with pigs.
