Re: Delaying having kids after marriage for few years?
Abortion is allowed in Islam uptill 30 days ^
Are you serious? According to this logic there will be no divorces then right? 
Consider:
a) Couple. Marry. Don’t have kids for a year. Spend that time adapting to each other, each others’ families, knowing each other, getting used to each other. Without kids or distractions. Easier.
b) Couples. Marry, have kids wihtin a year, then divorce. Not only they manage to ruin their life but also their children’s.
Waiting is common sense.
Children should come in the equation when:
a) couples are mentally ready to go towards that HUGE step of taking care of another living thing and;
b) when they are in a good financial state to provide their baby(ies) with the **best **life they can.
Straight forward really, but another concept desis have managed to corrupt and confuse.