Defensive people

some people are amazing, they always have their guards up. You open your mouth in front of them and before you even complete your sentence, their defense guard is up and they are in totally defensive mod ..

They just assume that you are criticizing them ..

is not that amazing?

kiyaa aap ko aisay logon pe taras ataa hai ya ghussa

mujhay to bohut taras ataa hai …

its because of their low self esteem .. and that is something to feel bad about and pray for the person who is suffering from it …

Allah oon ko aqal de .. aameen

aur allah aap logon ko iss thread me post kernai kee toufeeq de

summa aameen

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:hmmm: i think its because people want to prove themselves and b like “oh nooooooo u diii’nt” just say that to me. and ye amaybe self-esteem or insecurity:hmmm:

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tu bhai qis hakeem nai kaha hai kai kuch bolo unsai.. :wink: iTnne saal hu gayee abhi takk aqal naheen aaye. :whistling:

I think they get their gaurds up instantly because they r too aware of their faults :hmmm: Maybe b/c they are too frustrated with their ownself that they just can’t take a friendly criticism from anyone :confused:

Aaou mil kar haath uthayein aur iss qoum kay aisey aqalmundou kay lye dua karein kay Allah s.w.t inhay bardasht ki qouwat ata farmayein, AmeeeeeeeN tlk par phoonk maaring

:smack: patta hai TLK is alergic to lahool.. :emmy:

TLK.. mitti pao.. :stuck_out_tongue: lets flood with Lois Lane. :rotato:

flood ya pangah :smilestar:
takloo kaheen kay :hug:

ji naheen.. I dun get 4 haircuts in a year. :barbie:

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they obviously have their guard up for a reason, look at what areas they are defensive about and try to understand why that might be. maybe everytime they went to do something they got knocked back or belittled. Maybe they feel they need to defend their actions and/or opinions for a reason. It probably is a form of insecurity but maybe they feel they don't have any other option but to go on the defensive.

Zara mooNh bung ker kay phoonk maraa kerain, Phoonk ki jagah thook agaya meray opper

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Kami:thats y u r takloo :omg:

on the other hand jaymoo must be really hairy all yr along :eek:
no wonder woman recommended eyebrows trimming :rotfl:

TLK: jo qudrat ko manzoor :smiley:

Zobiiiiiiiiiiii ... oye where are you larki, nowadays

dekha dekha… Lois LAne IS a bad influence for your urdu! ye “**bung **ker kay” kiya hota hai.. :emmy:

meri urdu inn ki urdu say atleast achi hai :emmy:

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:omg: @ thread’s content.

TLK, yes they are truly the scum of earth erm… I mean I feel sorry for them too, but sometimes I think its okay if you just spit the truth in their face and tell’em quit being such a aahm aahm all the time. But yeah they’re a lost case :bummer: So who cares :snooty:

no wait, scratch the sorry bit. I don’t feel nothing for them**“.”**



ps. Omg, did i say spit. :cb:

kissi redhead ki KACHII wig khareedain gai tu ye tu ho ga… :barbie:

how do you spit the truth on someone’s face .. do a live demo .. :stuck_out_tongue:

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^No not anytime soon again TLK... one who got spat on is still struggling to recover :)

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TLK :hugz: Good Morning!

some people may be defensive because they have dealt with offensive people too often :-)