some people are amazing, they always have their guards up. You open your mouth in front of them and before you even complete your sentence, their defense guard is up and they are in totally defensive mod ..
They just assume that you are criticizing them ..
is not that amazing?
kiyaa aap ko aisay logon pe taras ataa hai ya ghussa
mujhay to bohut taras ataa hai …
its because of their low self esteem .. and that is something to feel bad about and pray for the person who is suffering from it …
Allah oon ko aqal de .. aameen
aur allah aap logon ko iss thread me post kernai kee toufeeq de
i think its because people want to prove themselves and b like “oh nooooooo u diii’nt” just say that to me. and ye amaybe self-esteem or insecurity:hmmm:
I think they get their gaurds up instantly because they r too aware of their faults Maybe b/c they are too frustrated with their ownself that they just can’t take a friendly criticism from anyone
Aaou mil kar haath uthayein aur iss qoum kay aisey aqalmundou kay lye dua karein kay Allah s.w.t inhay bardasht ki qouwat ata farmayein, AmeeeeeeeN tlk par phoonk maaring
they obviously have their guard up for a reason, look at what areas they are defensive about and try to understand why that might be. maybe everytime they went to do something they got knocked back or belittled. Maybe they feel they need to defend their actions and/or opinions for a reason. It probably is a form of insecurity but maybe they feel they don't have any other option but to go on the defensive.
TLK, yes they are truly the scum of earth erm… I mean I feel sorry for them too, but sometimes I think its okay if you just spit the truth in their face and tell’em quit being such a aahm aahm all the time. But yeah they’re a lost case So who cares
no wait, scratch the sorry bit. I don’t feel nothing for them**“.”**
some people are amazing, they always have their guards up. You open your mouth in front of them and before you even complete your sentence, their defense guard is up and they are in totally defensive mod ..
some people may be defensive because they have dealt with offensive people too often :-)