Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from “muslim” minds
People will do many things they don’t want to if they think they don’t have a choice. That doesn’t make those things right.
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
Blah di blah blah..Land yourself ONE woman and then come crying here about second, third and the fourth.
I mean it's the simplest concept in the world. A woman will never feel comfortable sharing her husband with a new woman. There is nothing to understand here. People won't even share their food at times for heaven's sake! Urgh man, I can't even stand the damn thought.
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
^Yah the thought of sum1 doing what God has given them the right to is surely disgusting. Believe it or not sum women r not like that.
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
Dude multiple marriages aren't mandatory, it's a deviation from the normal if situations arise. It's an adjustment, not the way of living. So believe it or not, most women will never ever jump with joy at the thought of their husband marrying a new woman. Why the hell you think the Husband needs his first wife's permission to bring in another wife? Because it's a given that woman will always have issues with something like this
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
This is such a ridiculous thread...
I agree wuth the girls on this one...mate if you want someone who will happily accept four wives then fine for you...In Islam it is permissable...its not a recommnded action or an obligatory action...people have a preference...those who want to do it can do it and those who dont dont...
So if you do then fine...you have no right screwing at people that dont...they are entitled to their opinion as much as you are...
This is as stupid as debating I prefer lamb over chicken...we all have our preferences...
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from “muslim” minds
^ Why do you prefer lamb over chicken huh? chickens tooo wimpy and soft for you?? Are yo in secure? dun think u can handle a chicken? 
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This hits it on the nail. I think women are turned off by the concept, because women know that its misused. Guys who marry more than once are not doing it for charitable reasons. They are doing it for lust.
We just recently had a terrible earthquake in Pakistan, from which people are still displaced, hungry, homeless, unhealthy, and unable to live their lives normally. Afridi, why don't you go to these sites, and choose a few wives for yourself from there?
Then come here and talk about polygamy.
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
I think theres more imp tradition that we need to leave, i.e. thinking cooking, cleaning, doing HIS laundry, is a duty of a wife or that husband is your god or any other bs like that.
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as someone already mentioned Polygamy is PERMITTED under certain conditions - not something OBLIGATORY or FARZ for a hatta katta musalman mard 
- and anyone who commits to polygamy better have good enuff reasons for it, according to the examples of the Rasool (SAW).
Islam, again, is a universal religion - not confined to a certain region. In the events of war, famine or any other similar situation the ratio (M / W) goes out of balance, maybe marying multiple women was allowed in such scenarios so that women and the orphans have someone to protect them.
I can bet my last penny on it that LUST was never a motive for polygamy…
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from “muslim” minds
LOL that’s funny. how is it a freaking hinduana practice that a woman doesn’t want to share her husband with 3 other ladies. if that’s what women did back in the days then more power to them for being so patient and strong.
But tell me where in islam does it say it is mandatory to agree to marrying a guy who’s already married and that it’s a hinduana or a non islamic practice to be married to a guy who only has you as his wife.
im sorry but ur full of ****, if the girl doesn’t agree to share her damn husband then she shouldn’t be forced or looked down upon. a guy can have all his damn pleasures and have 2-3 wives but the girl is ONLY supposed to love her husband and worship the damn ground he walks on. now that right there is where the backward thinking comes from 
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It's one thing to have preferences, naturally some women wouldn't be too keen on being part of a polygamous marriage. But please realize that there are and were many parts of the world where this is an accepted practice. No one is shoving polygamy down anyone's throat. Bearing that in mind, please keep your naive, ignorant, perverted, enlightened and westernized excuse of a fatwa on polygamy to yourself. The only place where "conditions" for polygamy like permission or widows or infertility exist are in some misguided and mod muslim fantasy.
Live and let live......
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from “muslim” minds
Allah(Swt) has allowed it under certain circumstances AND only if the wife agrees to sharing her husband. if we were doing every single thing Allah(Swt) said w/o questioning it, this would be a perfect world.
i don’t have any problem with it if someone else wants to do it that’s their beeswax not mine, and like i said depending on the circumstances sure why not. but i wouldn’t personally go for it so there shouldn’t be a reason why people would start calling my views hinduana or backward. :halo:
Re: Defeating Hinduana Jahiliyaat from "muslim" minds
Live and let live......
Yeah, except that the Quran and Sunnah suggest otherwise: that polygamy is to be practiced under certain conditions. I.e. encouraged if you're marrying a second time to a widow or orphan or someone in need, as evidenced by the Prophet's marriages, and his encouragement of polygamous unions in which such conditions were the premise for the marriage. Nowhere in Islamic history has the prophet encouraged men to marry more than once just to satisfy themselves. Otherwise, the Quran would not ask men to marry women not for their looks but for their religious piety, and to not keep "lust" as a reason for marriage. And keep in mind, a polygamous union needs to have everyone participating in it to be willing participants. If a woman doesn't want to be in such a marriage, you can't force her to be in it. If that is kept in mind, it will be no wonder that many polygamous marriages in the world today are not halaal.