Re: Decisions , who makes them…
HMMM well where you live, is kind of basically tied to money/finances if you think about it, as it relates to work and other economic factors. So that would be me.
Vacations, that’s her because i’ve traveled a lot, she hasn’t. So its up to her to decide what she wants to see, all I ask is that I get a chance to relax there and do some reading. Also I want to go to Hajj next year Inshallah, and she’s more than happy with that.
Kids, I guess that’s both. But again I leave it more to her, because she is the one who has to do more of the work with the kid, so really its up to her.