What kind of girl are you looking for OP? A girl born and bought up in the west who is innocent and sheltered like a girl from a village in pakistan?
Why not? I was born in the UK and alhumdullilah I have kept myself from haraam. I don't drink, smoke, haven't been clubbing, pray 5 times a day, respect my parents, graduated with a good degree and working.
If I as a man can do this then why cant a girl, just because your born in the UK it doesn't necessarily give you the entitlement to become corrupted!
Living in the west doesn't mean you forget where your roots are from and I believe you have one life why not LIVE it the right way!
Why not? I was born in the UK and alhumdullilah I have kept myself from haraam. I don't drink, smoke, haven't been clubbing, pray 5 times a day, respect my parents, graduated with a good degree and working.
If I as a man can do this then why cant a girl, just because your born in the UK it doesn't necessarily *give you the entitlement to become corrupted! *
Living in the west doesn't mean you forget where your roots are from and I believe you have one life why not LIVE it the right way!
Good for you if you've stayed 'pure' but speaking like that is going to turn a lot of people off..
I always thought piety was supposed to go hand in hand with humility..
I also dont smoke dont drink dont go clubbing pray (not 5 times a day) but pray daily, I also have a good degree and am working.
But I have an opinion, manage all my own finances, lived alone for 7 years, go out in the evening with my friends, drive and I am highly independent.
That's good. I am happy for you :)
The only reason why I posted the message earlier was to emphasize the point that "good" people still exists and you were being sarcastic which I didn't think was nice. Anyways please don't take things personal.
Good for you if you've stayed 'pure' but speaking like that is going to turn a lot of people off..
I always thought piety was supposed to go hand in hand with humility..
I think your also taking what I said in a different way.
I was just expressing my concern because "inspiron" was being sarcastic about girls in village. Don't you think they have a life too..and what makes us so special "the fact that we are in the west" This is not nice is it?
And no-one is pure in this world beside allah I just try and follow his guidance as much as possible..
What's wrong with the girls on singlemuslim or other websites for that matter? I will browse the girls' section, sometimes out of sheer boredom because the guys on the site are THAT bad, and I find that meeting GIRLS off these websites is a better source for friendship.
Believe it or not, some of my real life friends - I met them on naseeb. No lie. Very good girls.
The girls on the websites are quality women, for the most part - some more religious, some less religious, a lot of them work, and many of them that do are pretty awesome professionals, and doing things for society. Kind of intimidating when I compare my CV with some of these women, actually.
The guys on the other hand, well, I post daily about the sort of the stuff I come across now. As a social experiment, to show you what's out there. I maintain, it's the majority of men, not the minority.
So, if I were a guy, the FIRST place I'd go, is the websites. You'll meet some very awesome women on there. And you'll network in your local community too - like I said, I've met some people and just made friends over time.
What's wrong with the girls on singlemuslim or other websites for that matter? I will browse the girls' section, sometimes out of sheer boredom because the guys on the site are THAT bad, and I find that meeting GIRLS off these websites is a better source for friendship.
Believe it or not, some of my real life friends - I met them on naseeb. No lie. Very good girls.
The girls on the websites are quality women, for the most part - some more religious, some less religious, a lot of them work, and many of them that do are pretty awesome professionals, and doing things for society. Kind of intimidating when I compare my CV with some of these women, actually.
The guys on the other hand, well, I post daily about the sort of the stuff I come across now. As a social experiment, to show you what's out there. I maintain, it's the majority of men, not the minority.
So, if I were a guy, the FIRST place I'd go, is the websites. You'll meet some very awesome women on there. And you'll network in your local community too - like I said, I've met some people and just made friends over time.
Maybe, you have met girls that are genuinely nice (not denying this as not everyone is corrupted) but my friends have had really bad experiences and that has put me off from signing up on those websites.
I am looking to find a suitable match for my self. I am ideally looking to get married by next year. I am UK resident and degree educated 36 yr old. wheatish skinned , average build, 5ft8 in. currently volunteering in charity shop.I am very down to earth kind of guy, easy going, simple, and caring. My family lives in PAK and are Muslims with an educated outlook. We would welcome rishta from around the UK, Europe or Middle-east Muslims. She needs to be Degree educated or at least to college level. Job etc can be discussed later. I believe that it takes ages to get settled in foreign countries. I have been in UK for 2 years. Someone who is easy going, decent comes from either an URDU/Punjabi speaking background. - but not that fussed about these points. Main thing is the girl needs to come from a good family. Ideally she will be aged between 22-32, and attractive. But, beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Family involvement is welcome also. please PM me if you are interested or know of anyone who is looking. Email. [EMAIL="[email protected]"][email protected]
and thanks God he is not AAA , like a triple A battery ... but as we all can see he is super charged . Yet he is down to earth i.e. one end connected to earth , which keeps him neutralized .
I think online matchmaking saved me from a lot of wasted time…as well as effort.
I worked more than full time before I got married, had my own business, lived with parents, etc. There was NO WAY for me to find time in my exhausting schedule to go out and meet people…it was just too hard.
Enter online websites that connect people from everywhere and make it possible to meet someone.
Its an ideal route where you exchange emails first, then phone #s](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=s) , talk a bit and if you feel like its worth it…meet in person. Its SO MUCH better than waiting for him or her to come along…nothing haraam about it…and it keeps you in control of the situation.
And it makes sense if you know five people out of whom 80% of the partners were bad but beyond that is a bit of an exaggeration.
whats wrong if they are Somalis as long as they are good Muslims.
Lets not bring culture into it. People can't help where they are frm. Think of the Muslim Ummah yaaar.
Why not? I was born in the UK and alhumdullilah I have kept myself from haraam. I don't drink, smoke, haven't been clubbing, pray 5 times a day, respect my parents, graduated with a good degree and working.
If I as a man can do this then why cant a girl, just because your born in the UK it doesn't necessarily give you the entitlement to become corrupted!
Living in the west doesn't mean you forget where your roots are from and I believe you have one life why not LIVE it the right way!
you decide to live in west so why are you reluctant to assimilate? Let go of your Pakistaniyat...if you are so concerned about your roots then dont move to the west...
Yes, great way to meet people but I personally don't think its the best place to find a wife as I have few friends who are registered on singlemuslim.com and 80% of the time the girls they find aren't decent. NOT generalizing just sharing experiences!
How do you define not decent? (What things make you call them indecent... to put it another way)
