People laugh about this, and don’t take this seriously. I had a friend who went to Britain for some education, and came back saying that there is this HUGE dichotomy between women and men over there, and moreover, that since so many boys do go back to get married, and so many other boys marry white women, the pool of eligible guys gets smaller. So there is a surplus of eligible Pakistani women.
It’s true - just look at any dating website, or go to a rishtaa aunty and open her book, or just look at your neighborhood. How many eligible single girls are getting older and unwed, vs. eligible single guys getting older and unwed?
There are many issues with the “leftovers”
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Too orthodox with too many religious demands - great option for the single reads Quran 10x a day hijabi, but not so much for other girls.
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Too liberal - multiple sexual partners in the past, often looking for a free ride in a relationship - only will settle down when his parents blackmail him. Totally disconnected with the religion. Most likely to marry a hot white girl if he had a choice.
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Too ugly - does not take care of hygeine, does not clean up, doesn’t BOTHER to watch his weight, has self-esteem issues especially with body image - so basically, comes with a lot of BAGGAGE.
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His family messed him up so much he is on anti-depressants.