My cousin married a gora a couple of months ago and I know several people married to them. I dont know of a single guy that went back to Christianity or any other faith. The guy that was just married into the family is hands down a sweetheart, does his best, is learning the language, religion, food, customs, you name it. The guy converted for her initially but he also did it because he happened to find the religion attractive and corresponding with a lot of his moral beliefs as well. Most people dont find it an issue because Islam doesnt make any weird or unreasonable demands on a person. People actually do convert and stay converted.
If you like him and he is a good guy…do not let him go. Islam doesnt turn away anyone…why should you?
I think girls here have different needs then girls there.
Men get their degree, get a job, make some money, get a car, buy the house and now its time to find a wife to install in there too. Well, you go to Pakistan and you get one, simple as that.
When a guy goes back home, he will find a girl who is happy with being supported financially. For some odd reason, I dont see them wanting or demanding much more then that. Men find that easier to deal with.
Girls here dont need financial security, they have their own most of the time. They want something else…which is hard for a guy to understand because it doesnt plug into his equation of “if I support her financially, she should be happy”.
Interesting and quite right.But doesnt it make the whole equation difficult for the girls themselves because if they are gonna think “Mein isse se bhe Acha insaan dhoonde sakte hoon!”.Its gonna be pretty difficult…!