thanks Maverick 
I can name 5 girls in our community alone who refused rishtas purely on the basis of the guy’s bank balance. They got the creme de la creme of the good rishtas and refused them point blank because they werent earning enough, they didnt have their own house, they were ugly, they werent educated enough. the guys had NO chance!
Now, those girls are in their 40s, still unmarried and completely cold, isolated and b*****. they know they can never have children and scorn anyone who leads a happy, married life. Granted, they have a nice car, make good money but what has that got them in life if they are still unhappy and moaning?