Where I live it’s not usually the educated guys that go back home for a wife (or if they are educated they aren’t v.attractive themselves but are after a very pretty wife), it’s the ones who aren’t the doctors or lawyers or successful businessmen and not that great looking in comparison to what they’re looking for so their options are more limited, they know tho that if they go ‘back home’ just the sight of the burgundy passport is enough.. Kinda reminds me of those British guys who get Thai wives lol.. Oh, of course there’s the whole ‘subservience’ issue as well tho u tend to find generally that the more educated guys don’t usually want those sorts of girls anyway, it’s more the insecure guys who do and also in the UK anyway most of the guys who choose to go ‘back home’ are also wanting a virgin (even tho most of them aren’t themselves), it’s insecurity again, they can’t handle the thought of a western girl who may have had as much (or more) experience as them..
Marrying a gora isn’t the big deal it used to be, in London anyway (up north the communities are defo more conservative tho).. I know tons of girls who’ve ‘married out’ and it’s pretty rare for the parents not to come round.. If the guy is already a convert and not just for the sake of marriage the girl’s parents are often even pretty proud..
I think when it comes to fussiness the boys (and/or their families) win hands down.. guys demanding super fair girls, saying she must be tall, slim, not have had any prior relationships etc when they’re not like that themselves most of the time.. girls don’t tend to be that hypocritical..