dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

[hareem01]

@emaanW

@hareem just because you dont know the person doesnt disqualify any data or study.

I didn’t say I’m disqualifying her…I said i couldn’t find much information on her and her studies.

@emaanW

but do you think your attitude is based upon the teachings of your religion (excommunicate those who dont ENTIRELY follow islam), or because that’s what you’ve involuntarily inherited from your community … by attitude i point at you saying you wouldnt keep any relationship with a muslim woman who is in relationship with a non-muslim man. why would you do that?

Because I wouldn’t feel comfortable around her. And by not keeping a relation I meant I wouldn’t make her my best friend, but I can say hello to her and smile at her when I see her.

@emaanW

does this act make me any different of a person than if i was not with a non-muslim man? do you also not keep any relationship, even of friendship, with any non-muslim man or woman? what if i was your sister? what justifies your cold behavior with people in this situation?

do you behave the same way with people who “break” other islamic laws? do you also not keep a relationship with women who do not wear a hijab? or with a “so-called” muslim couple who arent very cautious with their religious following?

I do meet people who are non-muslims with good morals and some good muslims who don’t cover their heads but wear modest dress. If they were to wear mini skirts and stuff then i wouldn’t keep any relation with them either.

If you marry a non-muslim and also you wear a hijab and your husband don’t drink then I think i wouldn’t mind meeting you. Happy?

And most of all, if YOU want to be my best friend without forcing your ideas on me then why not, I’d be your friend.