Dealing with inlaws and still being sane and happy

thank rh....

Yes I had a talk with hubby said positive things abt his family .... and told him he needs to stand up in his home.. I will not speak up against my jhaitani in my inlaws home and lose my respect by mil or fil....

I just used gs as a venting venue.... for some an unmade bed is their peeve point...for others it maybe something else.... for me its an unclean disorganized home.... (it doesn't have to be a mahal....any small or big apt can be maintained in a clean organized manner...thats my point)..... have I said that to them no never... where they have told me to sit.. I have sat...... no complaints to them ever.... and complaining to hubby or my family just sours what I have around me... on gs ...venting doesn't really sour my environment....

and my jhaitaani.... she is what she is...but past couple of months the games have changed and I just wanted to get it out over here while I was hot rather than with hubby....