Dealing with a friend's annoying wife

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Re: Dealing with a friend’s annoying wife

Il be upfront my pal:

Maybe she dont like HIM mIxing with you because of your Super cool Playerboy-Status, that will influence her hubby.

Did people forget ‘Anjanas’ and her Khaloos AIDS thread.

KER-BANG :smilestar:

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Re: Dealing with a friend's annoying wife

LMAO. Super cool playboy status? Now this I have to send to my friends. They will get a good laugh out of that.

As for language - not a barrier. She is fluent in English and French.

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you should let the guy and his wife be. giving grief to the guy is pointless... his relationship with her is way more important than yours with him... after all she's the one who sleeps with him... not you...

I'm not suggesting that the wife is being reasonable but the ship's sailed for this guy. and at the end of the day, the husband-wife relationship is more important than any other consideration. so, the guy should put with it for the sake of peace in the marriage... and if I was the guy's friend, I wouldn't say anything to the guy...

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someone said it right, it doesn't make sense that she has a problem only with two weeks. but there's always more to it. I doubt he tells you everything that goes on in his marriage.

Btw, my hsuband let's me chill and if he wanted to go out by himself i wudn't stop him

MQM ke jiyale
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Agreed.

CM, you don't want to be an igniting factor for a divorce. Sounds like this marriage has other issues and I can guarantee she is annoyed at him other days of the year too. Leave it alone and walk away.

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Whaats so funny CM? I tried being polite.

you know what i mean

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Intriguing. I must say you all watch too many soap operas for jumping to the issue of divorce right away.

Now a question that has cropped up. Why are you all making the assumption that the my dear friend is not an understanding husband?

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to be honest, me and my husband dont ever mix our groups. so if his friends come over with their wives, the wives will be in one room with me, and the hubbys with him. i think thats the best way to be. all the mixing together with friends and their wives is abit too much for someone who may be abit conservative.

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Mixing groups is something we have been doing since college. We all grew up in gender mixed environments and western Europe is hardly a location where segregation is seen positively.

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Well just because its a habit since college, life changes after marriage. and there must be underlying reasons for her to act the way she does. yes we did grow up in gender mixed environments, it doesnt not mean you can hide away from your own culture and values. maybe she still has her eastern values where segragation especially between friends is a must.

in my own family we all sit together, my best friend is my very own brother in law, but because we are family, we sit together.hubbys friends and their wives is another story.

i have a funny feeling this woman, may be either jealous of their wives, are they smarter/prettier/ whatever than her.....

or

she just doesnt feel as included, inviting her is one thing, actually including her is another.

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CM, leave your friend alone. Don't become another wife.

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^ LOL, thats the best advice to this post so far.

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... because he is your friend... not your Husband. you dont know how he is as a husband. there would be alot more friction into their relationships which obviously your friend won't tell you if he is to blame... their life long relationships are much more important than your vaction times...so leave them alone and let them to work on it

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