This is not about daycare vs psycho parents or stay at home moms vs working moms. This is about "what is in the best interest of the children?".
This is very wrong of you to assume that psycho parents are the stay at home parents.
Agree with you.
I understand you are trying to tell the truth. Something might happen. Whomever it happens unki to dunia ujar jaati hai.
Be careful. I myself won't like to send my kids to child care on someones rehmo karam instead of living with me. I'll sacrifice anyting education, money, job or whatever I give importance to.