Re: Dealbreakers
I cant participate, I already have a deal for a life time. It wasnt really your post i was pulling apart, I ask my children the same questions just to encourage critical thinking and many lack experience too. I know this person really well, she made a really nice deal with seemingly religious person, very picky with halal haram etc but he hit her, she remarried and again religious family and the sassu abused her and husband slept around and then she didnt have religious as a condition anymore and she wanted to marry someone who would love her and respect her.
In real life the only thing that matters is if he will help her with raising the family, respect her be considerate and loving.
My wifes sis and her bil the most amazing and loving Muslims I have ever seen, they built mosques had amazing Iftaars, gatherings etc at their homes, did lots of charity and what do you know the boys turned atheists. So muslim moms and dads are no guarantees for muslim kids, the biggest drinkers in Safys uni come from conservative muslim families.