Dating

[NaMaan]

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Oh anything for food . . . ANYTHING . . . even sweet talking

[icicle1]

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@Ghost14

I got game haina?

So you want a guy who’s socially awkward with half the human race?

1. i said having female acquaintances is ok (discussing work, school, recommending shows/books)…but hanging out with grls, going out to dinners with them (in group or a date), smoking hookah in a group as frnds, hugging women is not ok.
2. yeah i’d only like him to be a social butterfly with his mehrams (which is his mom, sister n his wife). i dont care if he’s a super stud among the other 50 billion females in this world. sorry i’m a bit old school.

[pakiQueen]

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Everyone has their own preferences Ghost.

I want someone who is a social and out-going. I thinkk mature outgoing guys are more open-minded and easy to approach. Gladdd i am dating someone just like that.

[Ghost14]

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@icicle1

1. i said having female acquaintances is ok (discussing work, school, recommending shows/books)…but hanging out with grls, going out to dinners with them (in group or a date), smoking hookah in a group as frnds, hugging women is not ok.
2. yeah i’d only like him to be a social butterfly with his mehrams (which is his mom, sister n his wife). i dont care if he’s a super stud among the other 50 billion females in this world. sorry i’m a bit old school.

Yes, but given how society functions, he’s going to meet women at work and school. If he’s social at all, then it’s going to be really awkward if he’s trying to avoid being friendly with any women. The guys I’ve personally seen who avoid the activities you described, like not socializing with women even in a group setting, are usually kind of awkward around women. And discussing books/movies are usually things you do with friends as well as acquaintances. I see your point about not getting to close, but we all know men who take it a bit too far.

@pakiQueen

Everyone has their own preferences Ghost.

I want someone who is a social and out-going. I thinkk mature outgoing guys are more open-minded and easy to approach. Gladdd i am dating someone just like that.

I agree, everyone has their preferences. You don’t have to go on dates, or even have close female friends, but I think going out of your way to avoid women, when you’re going to see them everyday at school and work, is weird. Call me a hater if you want :halo:.

[Jaazzzz123]

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Hi,
Ya how can the girls sit in their laps unless she have a strong feeling or physically involved with that guy,i can understand the boys who are specially from a boys school feel shy and nervous while talking with girl, it is natural but changes with time

[Cansu]

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@Ghost14

The guys I’ve personally seen who avoid the activities you described, like not socializing with women even in a group setting, are usually kind of awkward around women.

Icicle didn’t say that the guy has to be totally remote and not even talk to girls. A person can be friendly and still maintain their distance. I have come across numerous such desi men and they are happy to small talk or just talk about everyday things like school, work etc.

They are not any different from my male Caucasian colleagues especially the older ones who for the most part like hanging out with their drinking buddies. Once the small talk is over they run over to their buddies. They both have their own unique preferences but they are far from awkward around women.

[Ghost14]

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I guess the issue is what you consider a friend vs acquaintance. Most guys with female friends are awkward around women they like so not having any female friends can’t help. Whatever floats your boats people.